Have u ever felt heartless?

first u need to realise that nobody gives u love and attention for free, they do have some expectations from u , u seem to have mastered the art of living happily in this world even without reailising it .... it took me a lot of heartbreaks and tears to realise what my so called friends and wellwishers are . now i do what u do , ( formality sake) .better you dont change .