Dropping charges of domestic violence .. ?

Since you pressed charges in the first place they took it serious that's kinda the reason police shouldn't get called if you know you are going to start feeling remorseful ...However you might be able to get the charges dropped if that's what you really want to do by letting the judge know that you feel safe of course there is the risk that he is upset by the whole thing and you get him out and you actually need help and they don't take you serious...